Yeah, I want to know what question that I don't like sometimes and it's what do you bring to the table? And when I tell folks that I bring the whole damn table the house the water The everything I get looked at as oh You're not supposed to you're not supposed to but I'm just like I I don't consider, I'm like independent, but I'm not like too independent to the fact that I went and need a man. But if a man approached me, I would expect for him to have the same amount that I do have. So I wonder if he will bring, will he will bring to the table if he had a table or will he bring the whole damn table to house the water too. So yeah.