Definitely agree there's so many factors that go into it and definitely if you have kids that's like the biggest one life for me and my husband we work different schedules so that we don't have to do daycare or have a babysitter or anything like that so that's what works for us is like having different schedules but it stinks because we don't have the same days off or like the same sleep schedules or anything but it works it's worth it

Yeah I think that a lot of people are gonna say that especially people who have kids like in public school because you know just working while they're in school be able to pick them up when you're done being able to drop them off before you go in like that just works out late you know too well it's literally like childcare built-in and you don't have to worry about childcare because by the time you're off work you're just picking them up so I think if all my kids were in school that's definitely what I would wanna do as well

Oh that's true I like that perspective that something different yeah you definitely would have time for yourself when you got home instead of like getting home and just being like go go go still because you're still like you just go from work mode to mom mode so that doesn't make sense like I've never thought about having like that chance to like have a little breather

Especially if you work like full-time, I feel like that would be really good.

Yeah that definitely makes sense I totally understand that we like alternate so that we don't have to worry about babysitter so my husband works overnights and I work evening and then we have like the days together kind of you know my husband usually sleeping for at least some of it but yeah that's how we can do it without you know having to worry about babysitters or whatever

Yes the schedule that I was always on it for the longest time was 5 to 2 and I really wish that it was like 5 to 1 but 5 to 2 was pretty good and I agree that like 5 to 12 or one would've been perfect the only thing obviously is like if your kids are in school then you wouldn't be able to take them to school but yeah I agree I think that's great

But not like relax relax because I got kids but my like my brain doesn't feel so like scattered a bit but that's just my ADHD but I do prefer mornings just because I just have the afternoon to rest and spend time with my kids without feeling like in a panic to get ready for work