I knew a friend who was so obsessed with her man she would always ask him where are you going who you going to see when you're coming back how long will you be 1 million questions and he would always get irritated by it he didn't like it she would be so clingy and she would get really upset whenever he went out or he was on social media she was stocking social media I thought it was a little too much and I used to tell her that she needed to give him his space not it wasn't healthy So this is where the question comes in have you ever had an obsessed partner I've had an upset his partner to the point where he wanted my passwords he wanted to see everything I was doing on social media he want to read all my texts everywhere I go I would see him pull up in his car and even when I was saying I was going out to the store he'll want to come with me he was so clingy here not wanna leave me and it wasn't a healthy relationship It was not a healthy relationship it made me feel away where I felt like the person didn't have trusted me right so eventually it cannot go very well because he had a personality that was so obsessive where he needed me needed me needed me and if he didn't get me he would not be happy and he'll be very upset and he would be violent so this is where I had to cut the connection because it wasn't healthy and it wasn't going anywhere So definitely let me know if you've ever had an obsessive partner and how did it go did you end up fixing things did you end up breaking up

Dreamy I'm so sorry you had to go through that and as somebody that was still sort of in the grips of an accent a party of people that were associated with him I get it but I also have to be mindful of the fact that new relationships don't necessarily have to be that way so I'm hoping that your trauma doesn't become a pattern

Um, actually no, I never had an obsessed partner, girlfriend or boyfriend or anything like that. But I did have a guy friend who had a crush on me and I rejected him a lot of times and he started showing up in my house and shit and he kept like trying to reach out to me on different accounts and like it was, it was very crazy. I'm not joking man.

For me, I don't mind having a clean gay partner because it shows that they care for you. I love you.

I don't know about having an obsessed partner, but who knows?

If they ain't obsessed with you do they really care

Obsessed? I don't know if I would call it obsessed but... You know, it just seems normal to me. I don't know. Do I think she's doing too much? Yes, I do, but... Hey, I don't know. Seems normal to me.

You know in the beginning almost every woman has been what I would call obsessed. They're talking about all of these things They want to see you all the time talk to you all the time, which is great but it can be worrisome if they're grabbing an unnatural attachment to you and they need you in a certain way.

Yes, it's horrible, I can't lie.

Yep I've had enough says partner to the point that I've been kidnapped by him before so yes that's definitely definitely not good to have someone obsess over you are you upset over them not good