Honestly, what it even is personal time as a parent. So he has a mother. I feel like I barely have any personal time and everything is just like And like my daughter just always depends on me and always needs me So I feel like personal time as a mom is very difficult and setting rules is important And setting those boundaries is also important.

I totally felt as last night I think I just hit the fan and I was so stressed and overwhelmed and overstimulated my oldest she could not fall asleep for the life of her last night like she kept calling me and I feel bad like I'm gonna go in and obviously still there as much as I can but she kept calling I could've swore I went up probably like 15 times so I rub her back in her head and try to control calm her to go to sleep

My personal time is only my baby sleeps at night which is 9 PM till 1 AM till I sleep so that's my only person that I am other than that I'm 27 goodbye baby

Are you 100% understand this I honestly do not know how Sam set aside time to like get their nails done and get their hair done and stuff we don't have that you know what village that everybody talks about so it's just really hard to even like my own me time like it it's just literally only me that has my son other than when his dad is out of work so I don't know it's there's no such thing

So I started weaning my baby on Monday so we're on day five now and I thought like okay great I'm gonna get my personal space back and that doesn't even matter even if she's done on the boobs she still is all on me wants to be in my skin and I just sometimes I get just really overstimulated so I feel you I'm just like one of those it's just one of those things that you just are like well this This is what I signed up for and just gotta get used to it, I guess.

Yeah, I definitely don't feel like we get a lot of personal time being moms, but my husband has made it a point to watch the kids for an hour or two after he gets home for work, just so I can sneak away, get caught up with work and everything that I need to do. But I would love to have personal time, like not combined to an hour or two at the very end of the day, But it's tough.