So I'm out with my guy coworkers and they're older and I'm talking like senior management and they're talking about like how they've been married you know once or twice how in the first marriage they were still cheating and like we're out it's a happy hour of it and I like drunk and I just spilling the tea and they're kind of saying how they wouldn't want a woman that would allow them to cheat but so they like they need the discipline They said they need a discipline because they wouldn't want a woman that they could kind of like disrespectfully willing like they want a woman to kind of check them because if they don't it's just like then they basically saying that they want a woman who respects themselves because they don't look like they're unattractive to women whose know who is willing slow man's disrespecting self I'm a little tipsy so I don't know if I'm saying this correctly but basically if you know you have a faithful beautiful loyal woman at home why are you cheating on them Why are y'all cheating on us not ask cause I'm single but you get the picture like explain it and ladies why do you think they're doing it like it's just like do you want a little a little excitement for the night and then you wanna go back to your beautiful loyal faithful wife like it needs to make sense cause I don't but I almost understood him as a sick but I just wanna know like why still cheat if you know you have one like you have the prize at home but then you tiptoe out to cheat with someone just for the night for the hell of it like once Everyone starts on something like this I wanna know

This is a tricky thing with guys because powerful guys lack accountability and they have a weird peer pressure system to do this kind of stuff. I don't think power wants free reign. I think we want to do the right thing but the right thing doesn't get rewarded then we don't do it. Yeah, just some broad, unhelpful insight.

I feel like every man have cheated in cheats. I don't know either or