So I don't really know like much about it I didn't really get into it but there's like the thing going around and tick-tock of the mom who like refuse to watch her kid at the other kids birthday or something along the lines of that I don't like 100% now but me personally like if I take my kid anywhere like I am by him 100% of the time I don't ever let him roam off and I don't ever leave him for somebody else to take care of especially at like another kids party like it's it's a day for them so I don't know what are you guys think about the situation I would definitely 100% say that that is not OK

I know I wouldn't come to my kids because people are crazy and I don't trust anyone with my kids to be completely honest. My kids are always with me. I would never drop my kid off at a birthday party and expect the birthday kids mom or other adults there to watch my child. Like no. I think that lady should have cleared it. it. If she wanted to drop her kids off, she should have checked in with the host to make sure that that was okay.

So, I don't have all the context for this, but if it was a mutual agreement or it's expected that I'm dropping my child off at a birthday party and I am leaving, then yes, it's the other parent who is hosting the parties, you know, my child's health and well-being is their responsibility while I'm not present. However, if I am present at the party, which I definitely would be until my son was quite old, it is 100% my responsibility to be watching him. the other parents party like they're hosting a party.

Play I haven't seen this TikTok before but I 100% agree with you what bugs me a lot about like indoor playgrounds is that moms just go and take their kids and then they walk away and like sit somewhere where they think they're in their their view but they're still on their phone That bugs me like what you don't know for one like what your child is doing but you don't know what others are doing to your child you know

Immediately seeing the video I was thinking of my kids and my kids are one and two so obviously I will never leave them alone however if they're older I would say like fifth grade and above I don't think I wouldn't mind leaving them but I would stay around the area for sure I wouldn't go like back to my house or you know like if they're at somebody else's house I would stay in the neighborhood and kind of like leave them have like you know and let them have their space on as long as it was OK with his other parent I'm leaving him with

How do you fucking fart

I feel like the situation is very similar to taking care of a dog. It's almost like if you let your leash of the dog go and it goes off and bites another person or another dog, then it's obviously your fault because you were the one with the leash. You were the one who is supposed to take care of it. You're the one that owns the fucking dog. I feel like in most situations people don't like to use this as an analogy.

So when it comes to birthday parties, I'm sorry, but every party that I have thrown for my kids The moms never stay so I don't think anyone stays because You as the host for throwing your kids party you are taking full responsibility for all the kids there so Like when I drop my son off at a birthday party, I don't like just drop him off like I I stay with him.

OK if I was told that like I was supposed to stay at the party and watch my kids and yeah I would stay and watch my kid but like if I was just dropping him off then now I am not there I can't watch my kid and like it unless they were having behavioral problems then I would like come back and just like watch them and if it gets too bad we're going home you know

I agree I would never leave my child at another kids birthday party I mean the parent throwing the party already has their hands full so why make more of a hassle for them and also my kids don't ever leave my side anyways usually birthday parties are with family so we tend to stay together

Yeah there is an article about it people were weighing in on their thoughts I am the mom wouldn't bring the kit like she was like if I have to pay for a present and drive him to and from like you're gonna watch the kid for a while but I'm with a lot of you get it depends on where it's at with the parents are how old my kid is how old behave the other kids are how many of them are with the ratio to parents but that's it