I've never heard anybody call it that Omar, but I like it.

Is there a moment though that it like could cross the line if somebody says something or I don't know maybe if the guy hits the girl? That's I think that's what I would intervene.

It's difficult to say I do know some people who have been domestically abused and their relationship and even when you go to help them they're like in front of the part of the be like no please like no I'm fine I'm good so sometimes you know unfortunately they don't wanna help you can't

See, yes, that's the thing. The guy hates a girl, and I see it. That guy's not gonna be around anymore.

Which I totally feel because you're you know do you feel like you can take that on me physically I will call the cops but I'm not fighting a man that I know he's gonna beat me up now we got to beat up bitches

I've been hearing this answer, I totally get it, but I guess I'm curious as to like, depending on the kind of fighting, is there something that has to happen for you to get involved, like some sort of inciting incident?

I'm with you on this one. I'm kind of interested hearing these responses like what's going to make you call the police plus why are you immediately going to call the police as well as will you not call the police if this is a black couple. Just interested to see where the police thing comes in.

I just want to be clear, I think you have the purest intentions. I'm just asking these questions to have a better understanding of the thought process when people have this answer. Just want to know when they actually do call the police or what are the circumstances in which they actually won't call the police. I'm just asking these questions to have a better understanding of the thought process when people have this answer.

I think it more has something to do like if it's verbal versus physical, so if it's a verbal fight, I guess like in my opinion if it starts to get super disrespectful then yeah intervene, but once it's physical then yeah You might as well get the cops involved regardless.

Still why are you intervening into a conversation that has nothing to do with you? It doesn't matter what they say to each other has nothing to do with anybody They could call each other the dirtiest names in the book We don't know where it's coming from has nothing to do with us, but I hear you

Well, it's more or less once you can start realizing, like when you've seen the situations or been in the situations, you know how certain things escalate. So you know whether or not you need to step in or have someone around you that's capable of stepping in.

Unfortunately cause you don't know how another relationship is you don't know how it escalates you do not know that is you assuming that your gauge for stuff is the same gauge as the two people that are fighting and I might not be

It's really good perspective man, love it.

So it's that first, that first hand, that first hand on the person then, then Brian steps in. I love it.

Damn man, with that voice you'll make it worse if you intervene.

How exactly?

Devil's advocate here is like why would you... why is one different than the other? They could be emotionally hurting each other with their words but I don't know.