Also, when I say confidence, I don't mean like, like I don't like when people try to convince me that they're ugly or stupid or stuff like that. Like you don't have to tell me what I like, I know what I like, and if I like you, I want you to feel comfortable with like that thought that I like you despite everything that you're not proud of and to like love yourself. kind of sad and heartbreaking when people don't look.