I hate those like am I the asshole things because it's either it's always either like yes you're the asshole or I thought you were the asshole at first because of how you worded it But then I figured out you weren't the asshole like like like maybe saying am I the asshole for murdering my friends and letting their Like and letting their family watch them die like what But then the context makes it like I guess okay not okay, but like it makes it like reasonable I guess but like You're either the asshole or I thought you were the asshole.