I just moved to a new place I need some ideas like because it is so sad in North Carolina like I need 20 years does the word is it me

I like to go out to eat I like to go shopping I like to just hang out with friends at their places I like to dance

Start a meetup for people with similar hobbies as you, or look up different events to join.

Yeah, create a group, go download next door or Facebook groups or whatever it is and create a group where you can curate different hobbies you do during the weekend, go out to different restaurants, try different cuisines, like Jayce Lentz, Jocelyn said, go dancing and make it a thing. I get lit. Try different drinks, whatever it is. Have a girls night out, whatever it is.