That is totally understandable especially being like an older sibling of so many kids like you're probably ready for a break like yeah that might change but I totally understand why you feel that way right now

Oh that's so exciting congratulations that's like perfect a boy and a girl so if you're done after that I totally understand because that is what I'm hoping for also

I just have my boy right now.

I'll kind of relate to that because I plan on having like two kids and then I ended up meeting someone who already had five kids so I still kind of want my two kids which will make us end up with seven

But that is crazy. How did you end up with seven?

I have an older brother who's almost 13 years older than me and I feel like that definitely influenced me wanting to have my kids close in age like I don't know that your job is really hard are you close with yours

And I myself have two kids at the moment and I would love another two

Oh you come from a bigger blended family as well just like ours my husband had five kids before me we have a son together and then our kids also have two siblings that are not like my husbands are mine but

I feel like I explained that horribly, but my stepkids have two siblings from their mom's side, so not related to me or my husband or our son, but still a part of our family.

Totally get that my older brother is almost 13 years older than me so that also made me want to have kids closer in age because that age gap is really hard he's also my half brother

I definitely agree. I think being an only child would be so lonely. My best friend, however, growing up, she is an only child and I have to say I am pretty jealous of all of the attention that she got from her family for being like the first granddaughter and like the only granddaughter and like she would get so spoiled for all the holidays. So that is one thing that I was jealous of about her not having to share with siblings

Girl, I'm so sorry to be questioning this, but I'm actually questioning like are you being for real because oh my gosh, no offense, but your dad was a hoe. I'm dying. That's crazy. Are you like in contact with all of them? Do you know all of them? like oh my gosh I just wow I can't imagine