If you think about it like a woman needs validation in order to feel like a woman from this significant other way it's the same for the men it's just a matter of the level of validation that they need specific

This was because of the way we weren't raised at our houses

I definitely could understand that. It does depend on the specific person. You know, I think validation is needed more so from a woman personally, but But when it comes down to it, you are correct, I think.