I don't understand people that like fall for cat fishing I mean I guess I can't relate to that level of like desperation which kind of makes me sad but like I don't have somebody fall for that for real like it just seems so obvious OK let me talk to you on the phone with me FaceTime with you I want to make sure that you are who you say you are no big deal right any normal person to be like sure if they is interested in you I don't understand how do you happen so often