I wanna know if your toddlers also do this but I mean I think that a lot of toddlers do this but I just wanna know how you deal with it or any advice because my four year old every time that she has to go to the bathroom it's an emergency because she's held in in for so long so if she feels like he needs to pee if she just holds it until she can't hold it anymore and I don't see a reason why because sometimes she like sometimes she'll be playing and I guess I get it but sometimes she'll be doing like nothing like she won't be doing much and she still want want to go and I feel like one is bad for her and then to like I just want her to one she is because then if I that is like embarrassing for If I see her like kind of showing signs she has to go that I make her go try to make her go after meals stuff like that but any other advice would be really helpful