If you want the men to see you as an acid take problems off his plate give him time to myself so he can see that oh this person is really helpful this person fulfills a need is outside of the physical don't be obvious

I agree with you I think if a man sees you as an liability he'll eventually not value and yet it's important to not give out other problems with them.

I agree, but I also will have to say that men will have to start doing that as well. We always want to do stuff for men, but men have to do that too, because women need space too and men don't need to be the opposite.