Not just emotionally financing other people, but emotionally financing yourself. Like being constantly overthinking and worrying about like what am I going to get back? What do you, what do you think? It takes work, right? You got to put in that work in order to see the fruits of your labor. It's just not instant. The things that you buy, the things that you use to fill voids for that instant gratification, it's not going to be the same. It's not going to be the same. And like the dude said earlier in the video, it will be a little harder at first to commit to that change. But it's going to be worth it. Your nervous system will feel more calmer when you handle your shit. It's just wild.