I actually feel that it's better to just have a smaller group of really close intimate people that you can trust because for the most part especially in the kind of world that we live in now you know you can have a lot of acquaintances people that follow you on social social media but truly when times are tough and you need counsel or guidance you're only gonna be able to really truly count on a handful of people if that because for the most part you know it's hard to find people that truly