Like, that doesn't make much sense to me, like I agree, like if someone's sexually harassing you in public staring too hard, that's a legitimate situation, I don't judge you for that, but being rude to anybody who has a discussion with you just because they might disagree or it's even less than that, just how some people look or their voices, that's just being a fucking asshole, and that's got nothing with standing up for yourself and being who you are, you're just being a dick.