For example, um, I grew up in a family where I wasn't really given the freedom or I even had the appreciation for me speaking up and talking. I talked a lot, but I was a youngest so it was like, oh, girl sit down over there, whatever. So, um, I just learned how to kind of protect myself and just be around people that I know are, accept me as being authentic and take me as who I am. And so that doesn't mean.