So my cousin knows that I kinda wanna have a bitch Shower so she works for this company that has like nice expensive stuff like she offered to get me the bathtub but I don't know if it's the bathtub that I want but I know she wants to get it for me One is obviously kind of way cheaper but she gets a discount on her job so it kind of evens out like I don't know should I just take the one as she gets or get what I actually want

I will definitely make sure that you get some thing that you want because you don't want to get some thing even if it's from somebody that you know was just trying to do something nice you could always just say it in a polite way that you already have one picked out

I mean you could always accept it and then you know pass it on to someone else and get what you really want because you deserve to get what you want but but that's a tricky one.

Is the reason that you don't want that one because it's more expensive or you just simply like the other one If you like the other one better than this one then just go for the other one But if it's because it's more expensive.

So I mean I personally like when I had my baby registry I wanted specific items and was happy that people got me the exact thing that I wanted so you can always tell her that or accept it and then

Honestly I am I am like so shy to tell people that starts when they want to sell obviously it's like my mom but I would probably myself I'll probably just except the gift and never use it and you just give it away to somebody who they don't know

Honestly, I would just let her know like you have your eye on a star and one Maybe if she wanted to get you something else you could do that or or maybe ask her what that bathtub looks like and see if you maybe do like that one.

I don't think you're being picky because you want to get what you want, especially if you planned on paying for it yourself to begin with. I think you can just nicely let her know that you appreciate her wanting to buy the top for you but you had another one in mind.

It's not because it's more expensive, it's because it wasn't the one that I was seeing that was like, good reviews. 16 threes, 23 threes, 21 threes. And it's, I don't know if I want the one I've had before.