No, they shouldn't be able to control it, or they shouldn't try to control it, but they can, like, you know, like, put their two cents in, if that makes sense. Like, they can, I don't know, like, get their opinion on a person, but they shouldn't, like, want to control it or whatever. And if it doesn't work for them, then, I mean, y'all shouldn't be in a relationship.