All right, well, look, you're definitely going to argue, but it's like Dr. Amos Wilson says if you're in a fight make sure that you fight fear You can't nitpick one another the thing is you have to be open To how the other one sees things and try to go for an understanding First make sure you each have an understanding of how the other is Understanding and then move from there or else it'll just be the back and forth until the divorce