Hey Stereo and my beautiful Stereo family, I have a question for you because I'm watching this video and he has his ways that he is saying helps deescalate a situation, you know getting closer, holding hands, looking each other in the eyes, it usually does make it harder to get in a straight out argument, blow not fight, I know one thing me and Butler like to do if we can't for whatever reason come to an agreement, we'll have to put a pin in it and we find something to laugh at or maybe something funny to watch or just maybe talk about something else all together, right? What is it that you guys do to deescalate arguments so that it's a healthy argument right? Because arguments aren't supposed to happen in relationships, but healthy arguments so they don't get out of control, I would love to hear you guys advice, can you drop it in the comments? Let's go Stereo!

How to escalate an argument. Throw something at the person.

Usually how I de-escalate is just by staying away from them, giving me a few minutes to breathe and let me walk around, let me do my own thing. I need my own space for a little bit. Then I'll come back in a few minutes and I'm fine.

Yeah this sounds really healthy and nice and I wish that I could show this to my partner but honestly I feel like once he crosses a certain threshold of being upset it's hard to even get through to him so I don't know I struggle with that honestly so yeah

for me it is just so endearing to see a man talk about like talking that regard and it's like men they should be just more open with the emotions we could get so far with just communicating and being vulnerable. how I de-escalate stuff I stay quiet I stop like I'm not really an angry person so yeah but still sometimes I gotta get on that energy too

Oh, for sure. You've definitely got to have them de-escalation techniques, honey, because and get them early, too, because once you start getting used to shit, just getting out of hand, it's kind of hard to go back from that. So me and my husband, we usually just kind of just stop and breathe for a second, like just and then if if we still coming at each other like aggressively, like we're still talking at each other, then we still need more time. Like, we just need to breathe some more smoke a blunt or something and come back.

This is great, because shit gets kind of bad with me sometimes, and maybe this will calm the waters on both sides, man, you know? Give each other some reassurance while we, you know, stand ten toes down in how we believe and, you know, respect and everything. Keep up the good work and the great posts.