My, uh, my ex cheated on me with my best friend, um, and I've been debating whether or not giving her a second chance. What do you guys think?

Nah, if this is new news, like within the past three months that this has happened, hell no. No, no, no, no. You need to give that time. You need to put pressure. You feel me? If she's really for you and she really wants you, she won't have a problem with taking the extra time to prove her loyalty to you. You feel? Don't give her a chance right away. Give it at least five to six months.