now listen here's my thoughts about what she said I've had this right now where if I go too far into my head or I'm doing too much the first thing my husband asks is me what can I do for you today is there anything I could ease a situation for you and I say that part of this whole thing that she said was really important I've had partners I would like will curse you out or make fun of you or tell you you're weird or chill the fuck out or leave because they couldn't be around that energy they didn't know what to do with it they didn't even know how to help you settle that whatever the fuck you got going on she was like women are emotional but I think as humans we're all emotional right so him cursing me out and going off like bitch what the fuck is your problem chill the fuck out and you are trying to chill down but instead of him recognizing that you haven't made an anxiety attack or you really are trying your best to calm those emotions down because of your period or whatever you got going on he's able to save space for you I think that's the most important part can your partner saying space just for you regardless how crazy the situation may be I could say a lot but I ain't trying to podcast baby hey tap in with me what are your thoughts on this leave a comment let's go stereo and my beautiful stereo family

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Well, sometimes actions speak louder than words, and sometimes you just, you don't fit this mold of expectations really, so you just kind of, I don't know, it's always fun seeing femininity tell masculinity how to be, and masculinity tell femininity how to be. I think there's a middle ground that can be reached, but every two people on earth are different in how they exchange that, I guess, energy, especially sub to dom and dom to sub.

girl yeah it's not only about having our own foundation but having that people around that yeah they're not because that's the thing they are not there to solve your issues it's just hey maybe validate the feelings maybe let me know that it's gonna be okay even if you don't know but

It caught me off, but still all that to say is like yes it is entirely true because we're humans and I think it's already time to start and engaging and being honest about our emotions and just Being able like to see this is happening. I'm feeling this way. I am triggered and as well self-regulating remembering, you know Everything is just passing by this as well will be transient girl

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shout out to this post Tammy you already I think what she's saying has validity but my whole thing is it's the whole you're not in your masculinity if you don't you know I'm saying like men aren't women so we have to learn how to understand women because now her partner her man could be like well you know say you don't understand man why you and it becomes a man versus woman thing I just think your partner in general should be the center now you got to be accountable for your shit but you should be able to send her out and be there for your partner yeah me

Okay, so sis is spitting straight facts. Straight facts. Um, I totally agree with that, you know, I sometimes lose my shit too, you know, I'm a little bit I don't know what I want. Whatever it may be and all I want is just acknowledgement. Hey, babe, everything's gonna be cool. You need a hug? Come here. I got you. Let's go grab some food. That's it. Anything beyond that is, it's actually makes it worse and creates problems. So yeah. For us to remain feminine, they gotta stay masculine.

I definitely agree with what she's saying, it goes both ways but I definitely agree with that.