A biggest red flag for me is, um, when they don't trust you. Like, like for example, she'd be, she'd keep asking, oh can I go through your phone, can I go through your phone, can I go through your phone? And like a daily basis, like they don't, like, they don't fucking believe you. Like, they think like you're fucking cheating or something. Cheating. And you're like, can I go through your phone, can I go through your phone? Like, oh my.