Hi guys, it's Dreamy here with another interesting relationship question for you lovebirds out there. So I knew a couple who always would fight over the littlest random things that didn't even matter, like how eggs were cooked with too much oil or how a sandwich was cut in half and just little things they would bitter about that didn't even make any sense. So I have an interesting question for you. Do you think that fighting in a relationship is healthy or do you think it should be avoided? In my opinion, I think it is normal and it's a sign of a healthy relationship. It's good to communicate with your partner, you know, and it's always good to get to the root and fix things together, express and communicate to each other. I think by avoiding, avoiding the communication and the talk can be destructive over time. So make sure you do talk it out and have an understanding.

Uh, yeah, if you can work it out.

I think that things are going to happen. You're going to butt head some time, but I I think it's not healthy for it to be a constant thing in your life.

I think that having a difference of opinion is absolutely amazing as far as fighting goes if you're in a relationship with a politician you want to keep them on their toes if you're in a relationship with a soldier or you want to keep them on their toes so I think that there's a time and place and emotive behavior but it's gonna be contextual to the partner that you decide that you're going to be with

I have been so lonely lately man I forget how I feels to fight with a girl in a relationship I can be healthy sometimes but I guess I wouldn't now for the most part it's weird now because now a girl won't even get to the position y'all I go and get into a position where you will make it where you can argue with a guy you guys are just like block and I get like fucking leave or some shit I don't know

Are you going to be healthy whenever you're choosing to argue over specific things that actually matter but when you're arguing over stuff like eggs and how sandwiches are cut it just doesn't make any sense because like at that point it just feels like you're incompatible

I think fighting builds a healthier relationship. Getting that frustration out, not saying, I'm not saying fight the person, but definitely like have those hard conversations because those will build the bonds that you have for your relationship.

Text sent yes no relationship is perfect and can't ever be perfect there's always going to be arguments and fighting in one but I believe it was pertaining to do you know Things that are always recurring and ongoing then I believe that relationship is not healthy and that those two people share separate and not find other people

Fighting can be healthy. I think it's more about like what you're fighting about and how you guys resolve the fight That's what I think is like super like good important. Like you're gonna fight. There's no fucking there's no like nothing's perfect But I think it's how you handle the fight how you end it and how you resolve it.

Fighting in a relationship can't be healthy but it's needed sometimes

What kind of fighting you described in the beginning I would say isn't that healthy really but arguments when you have a disagreement that can be healthy because absolutely I agree with you on the second part we need to talk to each other together and be on the same page The worst thing you can do is not know or wonder what the other persons thinking