Um, for me, it's not that men are mean, it's just sometimes they, people just tap back. Um, maybe some people started at first, but like, maybe they're just rude for no reason, I don't know, but I've never got hit for no reason, I don't know. But, um, they're not going to hate on you just because you look like something, they just, maybe they just don't like you. But that doesn't mean, that does not mean just-