Umm, I feel like some are joking, look, I have met guys that were mean, but they were, like, joking about it, umm, but, some men are just, like, using stereo to be honest, you know, honestly misogynistic, which, like, I guess go off, be you, be who you are, you know? But, um, yeah, whatever, I mean, it happens in real life too, you know? It is what it is.