Well, the concept is, if a man cannot provide for himself, then how can he provide for a woman? The problem is, most men want to provide for a woman, when they themselves aren't able to provide themselves. You have to be able to treat yourself good so you can treat others. It doesn't work like that.

Define provide like bring money if it's like not marriage then I don't care but like the reason why I think like marriage is like important for a man to provide is for like well we all need to provide so if you're not bringing shit in it's over we're not I'm not marrying you

mean you you have to like provide for your like woman to be fair but if times are rough and it doesn't work then i mean what are you gonna do about it so yeah

What do you mean provide? Do you mean earthly possessions or spiritual possessions? Those are two different things to provide. Yeah, facts one.