And then on the other side of that is the fact that we gang gang on interests, we gang gang on the type of music we like to listen to, we gang gang on the type of movies we like to watch, we gang gang on shows, things we see on social media, when we're in the presence of other people, whatever that group is doing, we gang gang on that, work, school, whatever, families. So and sometimes these even beliefs are different, maybe it's not even religious, maybe it's just about scientific theory or whatever. We gang gang on a whole bunch of other things, so why can't we figure out ways for us to highlight that more and focus on that more and set aside all this construct psychological abusive stuff that we've been living in. Hashtag wisp it.