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How do you view submission? Is it healthy? And is it needed in a relationship? 🤔 #relationships #dating

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Hello, everyone. Latin wife you're asking How do you view submission? Do you feel that it's healthy? Do you feel that it is needed in a relationship? Please give me your thoughts below.
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You know, when a woman and a man are together, you know, when they're married, you know, they're together, they're one being. So, you know, they should stick together. You know, submitting is one thing, you know, you learn together, you make together, you cry together.
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And then there's the beauty of childhood. You have kids, they submit to you obviously to learn from you and then when they're ready they go off into the world and then they come back and then you submit to them and they help you when you're old.
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And then there's the one thing you give all your life to, and that's the Lord. You submit to the Lord, whether you don't want to or not, you're going to eventually. He's the Almighty God and He's long-suffering and gives us mercy to learn from Him.
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The one thing I think you really shouldn't fully submit to is yourself. You can submit to yourself. Of course, everyone has to. Know who you are, push yourself, do things for yourself. You really got to push yourself in order to be yourself. Check yourself before you wreck yourself kind of action, if you know what I mean.
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You know, it's very important to understand that there's a lot of selfish people in the own days and you should really open your eyes to help others because they will also help you because there's going to be someone who went through what you went through years ago and you can help them the way you were helped.
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There are people out there who have bad things that happen to them and they grow and it will come and then when they see someone going through that to become hypocrites and they push them down instead of growing them up just like they wish they had. That's the thing about life.
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You know the thing is is that you know because of God I'm still going strong today even when things are not good but you know sometimes it's best to try to bring other stuff with you so you can both go up together and look to what God says the simpler way of life.
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Sometimes it's best to step back. Look from right and wrong. Understand what you've done in your life. Repent. Turn away from those things. Become a better, new person. That's the thing about the Bible people don't get. It's not a way of purity, it's a way of changing.
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You know, people who are Christians sometimes think their selves is better. They go after gay people and harass them. They have no right to harass another human being. Because what the Bible says about sin is nothing. Because they are also sinners, they are hypocrites.
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So to any Christian who has ever hurt anybody because of how they are in life and harassed them, then this is wrong and if the Bible is against it, and I suggest you look into the Bible yourself and see those truths instead of what others have said and taking whatever you read out of context.
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So normally before posting my post I love to listen to what other people have to say about it So I get a little bit of education from that because I believe my opinion
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So essentially I don't want to like be opinionated about anything so I love to listen to other people's perspectives first and then I post my post but I don't have time right now so
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Maybe I'll listen to their posts later, but for now I can say the word submission is wrong for me.
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Nobody is submitting to any higher power over here. Nobody is more powerful than the other person. It's a relationship. So in relation to the other person, it's a relationship.
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So in relation to the other person, his perspectives and everything else, like in relation to the other person, what you are doing, that counts, that's not necessarily a submission if you're doing something.
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If you're doing something that will help him or her feel empowered, that is more like a sacrifice and understanding than a submission.
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And even love and even affection right so when it comes to relationships relationships are built on soft skills soft attributes like
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like empathy, understanding, care, nurture, long-term perspectives, responsibilities submission has no
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So even in bed, because a lot of people might want to argue that in bed submission applies, you need to submit or you need to dominate right, even in bed it doesn't apply if you're really into that.
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well again that's just me so I want to get more education on this first I think I'll listen to all the other audio posts first and if required I'll modify my
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See, the perfect answer for this one is balance. If you can balance this one out, you can balance anything.
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Other than my other message that I sent, you know, I was hearing everybody saying this, you know I think it's important to understand that You know life was made hard because the reason why Jesus did not stay on earth is because he wants us to go through life So we can become better people
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Life is hard, and actually God made it purposely hard, so that we can grow as people and let the hard times and the good times shape us into a more perfect, beautiful being who we are always meant to be.
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And that's the thing that people don't really understand about God. So that we can have dreams, we can have ambitions, we can have thoughts on who we are, but we really don't know who we are, you know, and the reason that God shapes it is so it can be who we are meant to be.
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Do you think George Washington, who had a homestead in English colonies of the most powerful empire in the world, do you think he foretold that he would become a general, start a rebellion, and become a president of the soon-to-be most powerful country in all of history?
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And the thing is, you don't know who you're gonna be. Even without God, you have no idea who you're gonna become. But with God, you are guaranteed to become the person you were always meant to be, the good and humble greatness that God has thought of you to be.
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And please no one take what I was saying about God in offense Okay, I'm only just trying to spread what I think is right. I respect you. Have a good day God bless you and I hope all is well with you and everybody else is listening. Amen
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I think when you're talking about submission you have to really classify like what part of a relationship would you be submitting to. You get what I'm saying? Are you married submitting to your husband or you know what I'm saying?
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How is being what a man wants you to be weak? That makes no sense. Like, what makes like, huh? How is you're supposed to be the mother of my children? I'm nurturing figure. How is that weak? That makes no sense.
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I think that to each their own it wouldn't be my place to decide if somebody else's relationship is healthy or not.
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As a Christian, I would 100% say that submission is healthy, but it has to be in such a grounds where you understand that that other person is putting their part into the relationship as well.
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Being submissive to and towards your man is very important, although a lot of men don't bring that submissive side out in women.
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I feel like it's good to submit and be vulnerable sometimes and it's good to be dominant and take charge at times.
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