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Hi everyone I lost my 10th and 11th month son and I need to know how to stay happy and strong as your mental health because I'm going through a lot and I need your guys help can you give me some good tips
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I am so sorry for your loss. Mental health can be challenging to deal with during challenging times, especially when you lose a loved one. Let me continue this on to-
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But the one of the things that have really helped me the most is music. I love any type of song that's motivational. And it just like I-
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I love the feeling in motivational songs like I can make it through the rain I can stand up once again on my own and I
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Bill, I appreciate that man, it's cool, you know, it happens sometimes. And yeah, great on this one, music does help people. If you're walking alongside the beach, that makes people really happy as well with music.
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Me, personally, when I listen to music, I feel like somebody's talking to me. There's a hero, if you look inside your heart.
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You don't have to be afraid of what you are There's a nurse there
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If you reach into your soul, then the sun that you know will melt away.
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Then a hero comes along with the strength to carry on And you can't fear the side, and you know you can survive
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The way you feel like hope is gone Just look inside you and be strong And you'll finally see the truth That a hero lives in a world without a hero
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Billy, my guy, you got a nice singing voice, man. You're like singing just like Adele and Sam Smith. You just sing with on the wind.
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I would say truly grasping the concept that life really does go on, you know? Like no matter what happens to us or what we go through, the sun is still going to come up tomorrow. And the day after that, and the day after that...
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And it's like a it's a never-ending cycle You know until one day the world just stops. I don't know what you believe in but that would be when Jesus comes back for me But um yeah, the Sun is going to constantly come up
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And life is going to constantly go on. You'll meet new people. You'll create new memories. You'll have new experiences. You will eventually heal. You really will. You will eventually heal.
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You know, time really does heal you. You know, when we go through things in life or when we experience losses, we feel broken. And that's okay, you know, it's okay to feel broken just. shine shining shine
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As long as you understand that that dark space you in right now, that brokenness that you feel, just understand it's temporary, it's not gonna last forever, that stun gonna keep coming up and you will be okay.
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Yeah, you're right. And it's like a new chapter in life, you know? It just had 2022, now it's a new chapter. New chapter 2023. So it's like a story.
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Exactly, yes. It's like a story. That's a good way to think about it actually. So yeah, this dark space that you in, that we go through, you know, we all have our moments. It's just part of the chapter, but it's not the end because we still got breath in our body.
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I got two goals. One goal is be positive and be happy. And another one is meet new friends and people in different countries and just have just...
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and meet new friends and talk about their lives and how they got through mental health or in general.
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I'm so sorry for your loss, but I think it's very important to mourn the loss and process that loss. And then once you're ready to actually find a purpose in life, find something that you
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It's important to find something that gives you fulfillment. And sometimes helping others can actually do that for you when you've gone through so much yourself.
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Hello there. Actually it doesn't need to be always happy and strong in your life. Just keep calm and...
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as i was saying i mean being unhappy or not strong is just another part of your character just go easy
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You ain't gonna stay happy for a while man, I'ma be honest. I lost one before and it's gonna be a while before you can't just be instantly happy.
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But what you can do is stay extremely busy. Work out, you know, start to engage in activities you know, you weren't really interested in before.
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Keep your mind busy, but that's not gonna stop you from forgetting how you feel though. You're gonna have to cry, bro. And just work on it.
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After you're done with you know the grieving and crying and all the other stuff which you'll probably never be done with that Try to keep a center and try to keep your peace
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Again, it's frustrating that I only have 15 seconds, so I'll try to break it down as quickly as possible.
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