As a first time mom I remember when I first brought my daughter home I was bombarded by messages when people come over and I feel like I was in such a bad mindset Reven make those decisions and be able to tell people know like I want to wait and all that didn't happen which I mean whatever I did like the support though so she from both our moms but I am and I also received a lot of criticism as how I was doing things with my child And I think this puts such a heavy load on me and I just completely struggle because I can't always always I felt like I was doing something wrong because of the credit criticism that I would receive but really it worked for me and it worked for our daughter and there was nothing wrong with how I was doing things I was just completely different than what others were doing but then again I was constantly told them doing it wrong or shouldn't be doing it that way

Hey sister, so I was a young mom. My first one I was 18. I'm almost 40 now and they're pretty much grown. But the biggest thing, and I'm going to have to do another reply, hold on.

The biggest thing that I suggestion to make is when you start having boundaries and people know that you're not even available for that conversation, you stop getting the criticism, they keep it to themselves. You do you, you're their mom. And so I think that's the biggest thing.

Yeah I definitely feel like that too I don't want to live in your family so I only feel like that pressure and criticism when I am a family visitor I go visit so yeah I feel you girl

Sandra I love this statement yes it's like anything what do we get create a size Florida beat my kids would stick so what what should I get criticized for only works it's my parenting techniques there's no nothing wrong with that

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