okay so for my people that are in relationships dating or that just want to chime in do you guys feel like if your you know person was like calling you and it's like an emergency because of whatever reason but you're out having a good time with your girls or your guys do you guys feel like you would just drop everything for them and be with them or are you like bro suck it up like whatever. me personally because I know how my fucking husband is, I know that if it was like legit an emergency and he needed me there, yes I'm gonna go be with him but he's never been like oh like a hater or like a fucking jealous person to be like oh I want you to stay home and I'm gonna try and keep no. I think that's weird, I think that's kind of abusive in a way, controlling because why are you doing the most to keep me home? I need space!