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Man, that's tricky, man. I mean, it could be that reason that, you know, he's probably ashamed of his house, but, you know, he probably married and shit. Who knows, though?
Wow, this is a good one. Number one, I do love Reddit too, gosh. Well, it could be he lives with his mother, he has a whole family, or he's a hoarder. That's a true story actually that happened to my daughter and finally the boyfriend, the then boyfriend, brought her over and the house was despicable. The mother was a hoarder, so I could understand.
There's only two things. He's either a fucking slob and doesn't want to show you his nasty ass pad or He got a bitch in the house. Those are the two things. I'm just saying
Yeah, that's I mean what else could she think right like if he's like nah nah nah and I get it You know everything has its time or whatever But if he's comfortable to go to her crib and do all that And she can't even step foot in his like not even like you know I'm saying
Good afternoon. I hope you are having a great weekend so far. Thanks for the question and the scenario. Yes, this guy is hiding something. Maybe he's a hoarder. Maybe he's married and has children and a wife that live with him. This is a huge red flag. I mean, they're deeply like this in the dating relationship. It's not a two-way street for her.
It's not a two-way dating situation for her because she's doing all of the work and he's putting minimal effort in. I would definitely, at this point, if I were her in this dating situation, I would find it to be a red flag. Like, why aren't you letting me at your house? Like, I do respect people's boundaries, but some boundaries can be unhealthy. And this is something people need to recognize. Not every boundary that's set is a healthy one. Sometimes it's used to cover a lie.
So, if I were her at this point, I would just go my separate ways. I wouldn't brush over this red flag. You know, in my opinion, with this particular thing, there is no reasonable, healthy, logical explanation to why, you know, he, like, no. There's other people in the world that I can be entertaining versus this guy.